Reading Finicky Feline's blog reminded me of Mr. French Man. *shudder*
I'm not sure if it's the French.. or if it's just him.. but he is really annoying!
I hate guys who are persistent! When i say NO, it means NO!
I liked him as a friend... but he wanted more and i don't think i can ever be with someone like him.. because...he just annoys me..and i hate his sense of humour.. and he's also very sacarstic..
He is always asking me to meet up with him... and i'll come out with lots of excuses...
He wanted to invite me to a concert once.. and i didn't want to go and he got angry!
When we do meet up, he'll get upset if i reply any sms! He actually told me to switch off my phone when i'm with him cos he wants my 100% attention!
He loves giving me presents too.. and i'll politely reject them.. and he'll get upset and insist i keep them. He even gave me lingerie a couple of times! He got the size correct too! hahaha! anyways..
He thinks i am not a good friend because i did not say hi to him when he's online and never calls him.
He gets upsets when i never reply his txts, calls and msgs.
He wanted me to be frank with him..ie. tell him EVERYTHING! There are things that i think it's not necessary to share with anyone but he insisted i tell him and when i didn't he got upset! He said i'm not being open with him.. that's what i hate most! Don't force me!! i'm a very quiet person nature.. and it takes time for me to open up to a person and i don't just open up to anyone! He makes me so uncomfortable that i can't even open up.. The more i get forced to open up, the more i can't..
Sometimes i'll feel bad and i'll go out with him..and after that i'd regret it.. I get very angry at him.. and at myself..
He said it's unfair for him cos he's putting in a lot of effort to this friendship and i'm not.
OK maybe i didn't.. but i didn't want to lead him on..
I tried to explain but he just doesn't give up!
Sometimes he makes me so angry i feel like taking a hammer and hammer his balls! But i didn't.. i kept quiet instead... very very quiet. I ignored his msgs, emails and rejected his calls.
After some weeks of not hearing from him, i thought i have finally got rid of him.. but no.. a package arrived..from him..
Guess what he sent me? DIAPERS! He wrote about how childish i was and i'm not a good friend and i'm taking advantage of him.. blah blah blah.
Eh.. Hello? Who's the childish one here? I didn't take advantage of him.. for every present he insisted i accept, i'd buy him something back.. or buy him lunch/dinner. I try to be nice sometimes.. but he just annoys me with his sacarstic remarks and his bad sense of humour.
I sooo wanted to send the diapers back to him.. together with my niece's poo!! But i didn't.. i kept quiet.. i didn't reply to his msg or emails.. he got worried and sent an email to apologise.. i didn't reply.. i kept quiet.
Keeping quiet really works..
Hi Fat Fingers,
It seems you are very very upset about me now and I am very sorry
about that. I was expecting a reaction on your side (laughter, anger,
whatever) but not just indifference (that was the worst case scenario).
If I sent you this "bitter" letter and "funny undies", it is because I
wanted to show you how much I have been hurt by what happened. I was not
sure you realized it, and I felt it was necessary to express it ...
black on white on some paper. I have been acting very childlike. I am
open to any discussion on the matter (and I do hope you are open too
such a discussion as well).
So, I would like to present you my sincere apologies, and I hope you wil
I wanted to tell him.. your aplogies are accepted.. but i didn't because if i did, he will start all his nonsense again. So..I kept quiet..
A couple of months ago, i received a postcard from Mr. French Man. He was in Tibet. He wrote that he regretted sending me the diapers and he was sorry and hope that we can talk again. I wanted to send him an email and thank him for the postcard and i appreciate it but i didn't. I kept quiet.
Sometimes, when he sees me online on ICQ, he'd say "Hello! How are you?" ... I didn't reply. I kept quiet.
I'm sorry Mr. French Man, sorry that i'm ignoring you.. but if i do start to talk to you, you'd start your nonsense all over again and i'll get really annoyed.. so it's best that i'll just keep quiet...