I was chatting with a "friend", Stupid Boy, today and Now i know why i didn't talk to him for a long long time....
Stupid boy : I'm now dating a girl named Sharon. She isn't pretty and is rather plump but she has similar interests and character like me.
Fat Fingers : eh dun say ur gf like that mah .. hehe
Stupid Boy : Not my gf yet lah.... We just met last week only.... But I am beginning to like her. I am very afraid to lose her and she might actually change her mind about me. I had a bad experience like this before..... Any tips?
Fat Fingers : i dunno.. just be yourself lor.
Stupid Boy : Yeah but being myself is not good enough in my previous relationships
Fat Fingers : i see.. do u want to change for a person? it is hard u know. u must find someone who can accept who u are
Stupid Boy : I think it's not so much me changing but the gal changing. Like the girl losing interest in me because she often lose interest in things quickly. Sharon told me she's like that. So how?
Fat Fingers : then i dunno. if she really likes u then i think it will not happen lor. or u make urself irresitable? hehehehe
Stupid Boy : I don't know about what is going to happen as it is too early in the relationship. Marriage is a long way off for me. Maybe when I am 35.
Fat Fingers : yah. u just take it easy.
Stupid Boy : By the way, Sharon is a journalist so she has to work on weekends for assignments too.
Fat Fingers : oh is that a problem for u?
Stupid Boy : No we meet after work on weekdays. I have just met her twice liao.
Fat Fingers : oh thats good
Stupid Boy : every couple has diff time period of becoming steady. I don't believe Sharon and I need 4-5 months though. Maybe 1-2 months.
Fat Fingers : that's good then.
Stupid Boy : But it's too early to tell. I don't want to be broken-hearted like last time. I thought my ex was the One but she broke my heart badly.
Fat Fingers : u take it easy lor.
Stupid Boy : She just cut all contact with me. Never even said why?
Fat Fingers : i see. i think just move on lor. be frens first befor u be steady
Stupid Boy : Yeah, but there are already feelings involved liao. We held hands on our last date. So I will be very disappointed if things turn out badly like last time. I only wish she likes me and agrees to be my gf in due time.
Fat Fingers : aiyoh. so eager u all
Stupid Boy : Yeah maybe we are too eager but we are really so similar. It's like meeting another me. But of course she is diff in other ways too.
Fat Fingers : u shld take ur time to get ot know her first lor. no hurry.
Stupid Boy : True. Can I take her flaws is impt. She also needs to be motivated to lose some weight..... That one can try to do after I know her for some time.But overall inner beauty is more impt to me.
Fat Fingers : her weight is an issue for u?
Stupid Boy : Not really. But I find it is a waste that her face looks cute but her body doesn't match. Need to slim down and will really be a good deal of difference. But she is a journalist and eats irregular meals.... That's what is causing her to put on weight that's what my nurse friend says.
Fat Fingers : i see
Stupid Boy : So she has difficulty losing weight because of irregular meals and perhaps too lazy to exercise. She doesn't even play sports. How to motivate her?
Fat Fingers : dunno.
Stupid Boy : Maybe we can both apply for some gym membership how is that? Or slimming centres?
Fat Fingers : maybe u should concentrate on how to make her like u more or stop her from changing her mind about you before you think about this?
Stupid Boy : True..... Any suggestions on how I can make her like me more?
Fat Fingers : i think dun be too eager
Stupid Boy : Yeah.... Good advice. But I am afraid if she dates other men she might choose them instead if I am too slow. So how?
Fat Fingers : u must be confident.
Stupid Boy : Win them all huh? Beat the competition?
Please guys.. never ask a girl you like to go to a slimming centre ok?? I don't think it is a good idea!!
& Now i know why Stupid Boy's ex-gf cut off all contacts with him!